Unless you are Erik and reading this at an exotic location. At which point the title would be,"Whimsy Wall is Going AWESOMELY!"
Yeah, I've got the vision in my mind and decently on paper. It is just *so* big on that wall. I've got to tweak (read: repaint) some things (uh, or paint over it all).
At the same time, I am enjoying myself. I spent some precious naptime working on it today and the time flew by . . . I was amazed at how quickly I lost myself even with the coughing and hacking and nose wiping. I wasn't very fast but it was good to just be mentally focused on something else.
No, I'm not even 1/2 way done, maybe 1/4 way done. Can't tell if that is good or bad. This thing could go either way. I'm eager to get to the part where Evy is helping.
And, why whimsy? 'Cause I am a better mom with more of it in my life.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Monday, January 17, 2011
Chills and Thrills
Today starts Week 3 of SnotFest.
sigh.
Merritt is potting training himself, said sort of tongueincheek.
And, those two things should not overshadow the fact that we (read: Erik) took down the Christmas tree. I've still got to round up the other decorations. Most are red . . . maybe it would look okay for Valentine's Day?
Merritt read his first book! It was HUG and has like three words in it and can be very movement oriented, which is perfect for Mr. Perpetual Motion. Merritt was able to retell the book to me right after I read it to him. He did this while the speech therapist was over, and we were ecstatic to see him using language to retell a story! He has added a couple more words to his daily chatter: door, potty, poopoo, on, off, and down (all said with his own version of the word . . . I'm not to worry that the word doesn't sound like the real word, uh, because he is attempting with vocalization and intonation). A week ago, he came up the stairs with a football and said,"OH WOW! I (jibber) ball!" Just melts you, for sure.
Evy has all kinds of quirkiness-es going on right now. I cannot remember a single one to write down right now, but he is thinking and putting things together (fitting some, others not so much).
That is all for now.
Sunday, January 16, 2011
I love you, Grandpa!
Gayle Albritton
Born December 15th 1918 Died January 16th 2011
Of all the pictures of Grandpa, the ones where he is young and handsome, the ones where he is posing with family, the ones in uniform, the ones where he is making cranky faces with my dad, . . . of all of them, this is the one that I enjoy the most:
This is his great-grandson, Preston, using him as a convenient mountain to drive up and down. Grandpa never moved a muscle or let on that the driving woke him from his nap. He would always bring treats, loved to eat at Cracker Barrell (one of my favorites), loved to tell stories, and had the coolest riding lawnmower . . . ever.
I remember a couple of years ago I was visiting him in Waco, cleaning up a bit, and was saying goodbye as I was moving from Dallas to Washington, DC. At the time, the plan was that I would be driving alone. He wasn't thrilled about that and gave me a shotgun to take in the car. He wouldn't let me leave the house without taking that shotgun. It didn't matter that it was empty of ammunition or that I didn't know how (or want to know how) to shoot it. "You gotta look like you know what you are doin'. People won't mess with you then."
Grandpa was one of five boys. Older people always knew the Albritton boys. I remember going to the school counselor when I was a freshman at Lewisville High School to check my schedule. The counselor asked me if I was related to the "Albritton Boys" . . . and then basically gushed about a crush that she had on one of them.
Grandpa served in WWII and the Korean War. He always had stories to tell and was always eager to help with my school projects related to those subjects.
He read bunches and bunches. I knew that I could always find something interesting to read at Grandpa's house.
He knew *everything* about cars and plumbing and wiring. I remember helping Dad reshingle Grandpa's house in Marble Falls.
I remember cleaning Grandpa's house while my sister cut the bushes out front . . . she was so thorough she accidentally cut the cord on the trimmer with the trimmer . . . and he didn't bat an eye. He sat right down and rewired/taped it so that she could get working on the bushes again.
There are two objects that I will always associate with my Grandpa and Grandma. One is a glassblown paper weight. The other is a set of military medals. These were always displayed with honor on their mantel.
My Everett's middle name is Albritton. And, I chose it specifically because of how well the Albritton men always impressed me, particularly my dad, my grandpa, and my great-uncle William.
I will miss Grandpa. He was that family member that always seemed to be present. He and Grandma were at every major event. They always sent birthday cards or gifts.
I'll always remember the Thanksgiving that Grandpa hosted. I remember how suspicious the turkey "meat" looked . . . he cooked it in the oven on 190 degrees all night. How proud Grandpa was to have provided a major portion of the dinner! And, from what I remember, each of us ate part of that meat.
He, in his deep Texas accent, was the one that taught me how to use "o'er yonder."
Stories always seemed to start with,"Now, you know . . . ."
I love you, Grandpa!
Friday, January 14, 2011
Snot vs Phlegm: Bodily Fluid SmackDown
Joining the action live is Momma (whose ring name is SLEEPLESS):
Oh yeah! We've got quite a wrestling match going on today! I've never seen it to this degree. We have eye boogers, nose boogers, sneeze spray, and the stuff you cough up.
Both Evy and Merritt are hosting matches of viral skill that I have never seen the likes of in all my life.
Rosy cheeks, exclamations of discomfort, fevers, coughs, sneezes, and runny noses are chased by tissues, yelled reminders to "wash hands," hugs, humidifiers, more hugs, french fries, sporadic cleaning of boogers and slimy smears found everywhere, and lots of lap time!
The action is unparallelled*!
And me, well, I'm okay just as long as I have my cough drops. Controls the stuffy nose and cough. I'll worry when Erik gets home about how badly it makes me toot (My mom always said not to say the word "fart.").
PS Merritt's naked jaunts took on a new function today. He decided to try out peeing and pooping in the potty. Success of the highest kind for him! Kind of surprising since he can't even say any of those words. (and, no, I didn't think we would start potty training today.)
*Did you know I had an internal debate on how to spell it? "lled" or "led"---then I realized it is an "American" vs "British" spelling debate. FYI: I went the Brit way. Blame it on all those British authors I read. True Story.
Oh yeah! We've got quite a wrestling match going on today! I've never seen it to this degree. We have eye boogers, nose boogers, sneeze spray, and the stuff you cough up.
Both Evy and Merritt are hosting matches of viral skill that I have never seen the likes of in all my life.
Rosy cheeks, exclamations of discomfort, fevers, coughs, sneezes, and runny noses are chased by tissues, yelled reminders to "wash hands," hugs, humidifiers, more hugs, french fries, sporadic cleaning of boogers and slimy smears found everywhere, and lots of lap time!
The action is unparallelled*!
And me, well, I'm okay just as long as I have my cough drops. Controls the stuffy nose and cough. I'll worry when Erik gets home about how badly it makes me toot (My mom always said not to say the word "fart.").
PS Merritt's naked jaunts took on a new function today. He decided to try out peeing and pooping in the potty. Success of the highest kind for him! Kind of surprising since he can't even say any of those words. (and, no, I didn't think we would start potty training today.)
*Did you know I had an internal debate on how to spell it? "lled" or "led"---then I realized it is an "American" vs "British" spelling debate. FYI: I went the Brit way. Blame it on all those British authors I read. True Story.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Chills and Thrills
Last week, I slowly started getting back into routines of being human and being a mom all day. Sheltering my surgery site, I played with my kids, did too much by 10:00 am, and was relieved on several occasions when Connie played in the afternoon with my boys, allowing me to lay down and fall immediately to sleep.
Then we all got sick. We did manage to have some fun. Cooking, playing, swinging, zoo break-outs with the animals, dominoes, chasing, sliding into our pool of balls, chocolate chip cookies with Connie, cupcakes with Connie, and popcorn. The boys love popcorn.
This boy could not get enough of that icing. Major licking action!
Connie and her #1 fan, Evy!
Evy: I'm coming home wiff you!
Connie: In your dreams!
Evy: Oh, yeah!
Then we all got sick. We did manage to have some fun. Cooking, playing, swinging, zoo break-outs with the animals, dominoes, chasing, sliding into our pool of balls, chocolate chip cookies with Connie, cupcakes with Connie, and popcorn. The boys love popcorn.
My kids love to paint. And Merritt loves to paint everything when he paints. Windows, floors, chairs, himself, the table, and, oh, some does get on the paper. (his face was all black and yellow by the time he was done painting)
This boy could not get enough of that icing. Major licking action!
Connie and her #1 fan, Evy!
Evy: I'm coming home wiff you!
Connie: In your dreams!
Evy: Oh, yeah!
Merritt just stripped down to his "naked boy" outfit again. And, I think I just heard him break into the bathroom. Maybe he is potty training himself. At least if he pees, it is on the tile and not the carpet. Well, I gotta go and wrestle him back into some clothes.
cough. hack. sniffle. sneeze. sniffle. hack. cough
Monday, January 10, 2011
Mom Is Lady Crankerpants
I am totally cranky today. I just can't kick it. I have a pretty bad cold and I think I am just tired of being down and out.
I am tired of being stuck inside, making sure I don't overdo it, even though I overdo it plenty while being inside.
I am tired of staring at my dirty kitchen floor.
The boys have been sick. Both are better. Evy has a leftover cough and we are still on the 4 times a day meds for Merritt's pink eyes.
Today, I am tired of being a human climbing structure. Tired of being kicked in the chest when I change diapers, tired of being the one in charge.
I am just feeling sorry for myself. Poor me. Really high on the selfpity. I just need to get over it, as I cough up some phlegm.
Who decided how to spell phlegm anyway? Some latin word origin, maybe, but I am pretty sure that at sometime some society spelled it with an 'f'.
In all, I am extremely blessed, really. Super friend Connie came over a couple of times last week so I could get a nap and continue healing. And, it does look pretty, today, with everything covered in snow. And, I get lots of hugs from my boys. And, I am wearing soft socks. And, Merritt is giggling at Curious George and both of them are sitting next to me, all quiet and still for a moment.
I am tired of being stuck inside, making sure I don't overdo it, even though I overdo it plenty while being inside.
I am tired of staring at my dirty kitchen floor.
The boys have been sick. Both are better. Evy has a leftover cough and we are still on the 4 times a day meds for Merritt's pink eyes.
Today, I am tired of being a human climbing structure. Tired of being kicked in the chest when I change diapers, tired of being the one in charge.
I am just feeling sorry for myself. Poor me. Really high on the selfpity. I just need to get over it, as I cough up some phlegm.
Who decided how to spell phlegm anyway? Some latin word origin, maybe, but I am pretty sure that at sometime some society spelled it with an 'f'.
In all, I am extremely blessed, really. Super friend Connie came over a couple of times last week so I could get a nap and continue healing. And, it does look pretty, today, with everything covered in snow. And, I get lots of hugs from my boys. And, I am wearing soft socks. And, Merritt is giggling at Curious George and both of them are sitting next to me, all quiet and still for a moment.
Saturday, January 01, 2011
Chills and Thrills: Just a snapshot of Amazing and Superb
All things considered, we've got some good stuff going on at our house.
I am healing. Amazed at how much energy it takes to heal, but it is coming along.
We had our first speech therapy session with Merritt this week, and it reconfirmed our decision to go this route to help him. The therapist is fun, easy going, and gives me another perspective to find ways to help Merritt. AND, she has homework for me to work with him. I love that.
Evy is sick right now; coughing up a lung as he tries to go to sleep. He is an amazing big brother. He also has been extremely sensitive to me and how well I am feeling.
Erik has done an amazing job with the boys over the past two weeks. I know it has been frustrating, spending his vacation doing, uh, "stay-at-home-Dad" stuff instead of traveling or whatever. He has been a trooper through it all.
And, me, well, I am amazing. Someone has to say it!
And, our friends. Well, they are superb! We have had so many people help us over the past two weeks . . . all volunteers . . . meals, watching the boys, bringing by groceries, gingerbread houses, treats, calls and emails to check on us . . . all while it is a busy holiday time for them! We are overwhelmed by their love, and we will ever be appreciative and remember the sacrifices they made to help us.
We had a fun Christmas with family and rocked it out with a New Year's Eve party here with the boys last night. I have oodles of pictures to post from the last month. I'll get to it eventually.
We have tried to do some family outings with my fleeting energy level. We put on our own Sports Night at the gym at Erik's work, went to the mall to play games and ride the carousel, and tried to get outside so the boys can learn to ride the scooter and big wheel.
For now, the boys are in bed, Erik is picking out his snack of choice, and I need to go put socks on. It is cold right now.
I am healing. Amazed at how much energy it takes to heal, but it is coming along.
We had our first speech therapy session with Merritt this week, and it reconfirmed our decision to go this route to help him. The therapist is fun, easy going, and gives me another perspective to find ways to help Merritt. AND, she has homework for me to work with him. I love that.
Evy is sick right now; coughing up a lung as he tries to go to sleep. He is an amazing big brother. He also has been extremely sensitive to me and how well I am feeling.
Erik has done an amazing job with the boys over the past two weeks. I know it has been frustrating, spending his vacation doing, uh, "stay-at-home-Dad" stuff instead of traveling or whatever. He has been a trooper through it all.
And, me, well, I am amazing. Someone has to say it!
And, our friends. Well, they are superb! We have had so many people help us over the past two weeks . . . all volunteers . . . meals, watching the boys, bringing by groceries, gingerbread houses, treats, calls and emails to check on us . . . all while it is a busy holiday time for them! We are overwhelmed by their love, and we will ever be appreciative and remember the sacrifices they made to help us.
We had a fun Christmas with family and rocked it out with a New Year's Eve party here with the boys last night. I have oodles of pictures to post from the last month. I'll get to it eventually.
We have tried to do some family outings with my fleeting energy level. We put on our own Sports Night at the gym at Erik's work, went to the mall to play games and ride the carousel, and tried to get outside so the boys can learn to ride the scooter and big wheel.
For now, the boys are in bed, Erik is picking out his snack of choice, and I need to go put socks on. It is cold right now.
Monday, December 27, 2010
Update on Me: The Narcissistic Short Version
This fairly narcissist post is dedicated to The Pirate. RIP!
Today, I didn't take any pain meds and it is showing. At the same time, I can drive, play with my boys without falling asleep mid-tickle (while guarding my boob), and have a complete thought in my head. I have a couple things to say . . . for now, this is what you get:
Further pathology results: The Pirate ended up being a different tissue type than what was collected through the biopsy (not unusual for this type of tumor). If I (oh, and the surgeon) hadn't removed the tumor, there is would have been an increased likelihood that it would have developed into a malignant state later on . . . so, there. Arrr, Matey!
(next post: "gratitude and why I feel thankful to be around to sleep through Christmas")
I am, egads, exhausted.
Today, I didn't take any pain meds and it is showing. At the same time, I can drive, play with my boys without falling asleep mid-tickle (while guarding my boob), and have a complete thought in my head. I have a couple things to say . . . for now, this is what you get:
Pathology of The Pirate is benign!
I *knew* to follow my own instincts (with some Help from above) about treatment and *knew* to remove The Pirate instead of babysitting it.
Further pathology results: The Pirate ended up being a different tissue type than what was collected through the biopsy (not unusual for this type of tumor). If I (oh, and the surgeon) hadn't removed the tumor, there is would have been an increased likelihood that it would have developed into a malignant state later on . . . so, there. Arrr, Matey!
(next post: "gratitude and why I feel thankful to be around to sleep through Christmas")
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Shimmer Me Funny
The surgery went well as far as I know. I've got a bunch of stitches, some purple marker marks, some skin "glue," and a betadine stain across my chest and armpit as results of my surgery.
The surgical center made sure that the "correct" side was operated on. I initialed the appropriate boob, as well as the surgeon, before I was wheeled into the operating room.
I've been mostly either asleep or pre--eett--yyy out of it since the surgery. Lots of good pain medicine. Most things are pretty funny when I'm on these meds and my own comical quotient jumped like 400 times as well. Well, I'm the only one that thinks I am funnier.
I've been a very, very lucky girl. So many people have shown their support and love for my family this week. Multiple offers to take care of my kids, bring us meals, or whatever else we need. And, we have been accepting help. The help has been a tremendous blessing for my family. Seriously.
I go for a follow-up next week so the surgeon can check my incision and share pathology results.
I'm only allowed to pick up things that are less than eight pounds for a week. I've been good in following directions, mostly.
The Pirate is gone!
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Hit Replay
The kids and I heard this driving home . . . and with windows down because the weather was Ni-Ice, we jammed out.
It is now on replay in our house all the time!
Sunday, December 12, 2010
V.Bucket
My earliest memory of missing out on "holiday" fun was when I was really, really young. We were visiting family up north for Christmas, and it had SNOW! In my mind, the snow piles were like eight feet high! I had a cold and couldn't go out. I remember looking out the door at a girl who was able to play, wishing I could be out there with her. (When I was there, I did get to use a hot water bottle--that part was pretty neat.)
The next memory and actually saddest one was when I was eight. We, in our children's group, were going to sing for a nursing home. Especially as a young child, I LOVED to sing, and I LOVED to sing Christmas songs, and I was excited to go somewhere to help others feel better. The morning of the anticipated day, I woke up with chicken pox. I remember sobbing because I wasn't allowed to go and could not understand how the presence of some little rash could drastically change my plans. (duh). I was so disappointed.
Since then, I've had the occasional cold, but I was always able to participate in holiday cheer.
This weekend, Merritt and I have been busy with the stomach flu. Missed a couple of parties. No fun.
Hhhmmm, at least I'm not at the party getting sick from some germ floating around there. Grateful to avoid those germs. Grateful for the miracle of Tylenol and the healing properties it has for aches and chills. Grateful for vomit buckets. Grateful for those bottles of Gatorade I forgot we had in the pantry. Grateful my other two guys are avoiding this latest bout of yuck. Grateful for parents who will never think I am too old to call and ask to help me "think 'cause it hurts too much to do it by myself." They even called back several times to check on us.
Merritt said a word that sounded like "keys" today when he was pointing to them. Progress even when ill.
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Thursday, December 09, 2010
Evy Is Goin' on an Airplane
I just found Everett out of bed again. Standing by his doorway, I reminded him that he needed to go to bed.
"I sleep standing up," he replied.
yeah.
As I tucked him into bed, he said,"Well, some birds sleep standing up." yes, they do.
And, as I walked out of the room, he reminded me for the 10,000,000,000,000 time, while wagging his finger,"Don't forget to get me when it is time to go on the airplane."
"Yes, Sir!"
Evy is SO excited to visit family this weekend. We spent today packing his clothes, practicing his cousins' names, picking out the movies and the games for the airplane ride, and talking about how even though he is going,"Merritt will keep you company, Mom."
He is sleeping in the clothes he'll wear tomorrow, his shoes are poised ready to go by his bed, and he might of slept in those, too, if he felt it would help make tomorrow go better.
We wake up at 3 something in the morning to get them to the airport for their 6:00 flight (I'm hoping I can stay asleep until 3:55 am).
I'm goin' to miss them.
Wednesday, December 08, 2010
Holiday Cheer
So far on the advent:
Christmas decorations inside and out
Driving to see Christmas lights
Christmas decorations inside and out
Driving to see Christmas lights
Christmas cookies
Christmas pictures
Make wrapping paper
Christmas music
Candy, ah-hem, Gingerbread House
and last night we ate dinner, without electricity, by candlelight (that wasn't planned)
I'm eager for carolling night. If you are lucky, we'll come by your house.
If you want to join in, call me.
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